A GIFT FOR THE FATHER, NOT JUST THE ROLE

Give him somewhere to begin.

Fatherhood can take up a lot of space. So can work, relationships, responsibilities, health and everything else happening around it.

A BRTLS Gift Card gives him something different: the freedom to explore what matters to him, in his own time and on his own terms.

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€50 · €100 · €199 · €349 · €599

NOT ANOTHER THING FOR DAD

Give him something that's for him.

There are plenty of things you can give a father.

Something useful. Something for the house. Something related to his children. Something with “Dad” written on it.

A BRTLS Gift Card is different.

It gives him access to BRTLS — a personal development platform built specifically for modern fathers. A place to better understand how life is affecting him, what may deserve attention and what could be worth trying next.

Not because something needs to be wrong.

Not because he needs to become a better father.

Simply because he is still part of the life he is building.

WHAT HE CAN USE IT FOR

He decides where to begin.

A BRTLS Gift Card can be used towards eligible products and services available through the BRTLS store.

That includes the BRTLS Fatherhood Journey — a personalised development experience built around his own life, rather than a predetermined programme.

He can choose a development window of 90, 180 or 365 days, depending on how much time he wants to give himself.

Each Journey is paid once upfront, ends automatically and has no recurring subscription charges.

His starting point is his. His answers are his. And what he chooses to explore remains his decision.

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A COMPLETE FIRST 90 DAYS

Give him his first 90 days of BRTLS.

A €199 BRTLS Gift Card covers the full price of a 90-Day Fatherhood Journey.

He begins with the free Fatherhood Discovery to understand where he is now. From there, his Journey helps him explore what may deserve attention, try practical possibilities in everyday life and use what happens next to adjust his direction.

Fatherhood Discovery
Understand his starting point.

Personalised direction
See what may be worth exploring.

Real-life action
Try something within everyday life.

Development Reviews
Look at what actually happened.

Adjustment
Use that experience to decide what matters next.

No fixed path. No fatherhood score. No expectation to work on everything at once.

€199 covers the complete 90-Day Journey. One payment. No automatic renewal.

Prefer to give him more time? A €349 Gift Card covers a 180-Day Journey, while €599 covers a full 365-Day Journey.

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PERHAPS YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HE NEEDS

You don't have to.

That is part of the point.

You do not need to decide whether he should work on his health, his relationship, his work-life balance, his identity or the way he experiences fatherhood.

And the gift does not need to carry a hidden message that you think something about him should change.

You give him the choice.

BRTLS helps him understand his own situation and decide for himself what, if anythingm, deserves his attention.

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FATHERHOOD DOESN'T HAPPEN IN ISOLATION

His whole life comes with him.

How a father feels and functions does not depend only on what happens with his children.

Work can follow him home.
Energy can change his patience.
A relationship can need something different.
Responsibilities can leave little room for himself.

And the person he is becoming may not be exactly the person he was before fatherhood.

BRTLS looks at fatherhood within that wider life.

Through the Fatherhood Compass, Fatherhood Framework and Fatherhood Domains, BRTLS helps create a more complete picture without reducing him to a type, score or ideal.

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HE CAN START BEFORE SPENDING ANYTHING

His first step is free.

The Fatherhood Discovery is available free of charge, whether or not he has received a Gift Card.

It is a structured reflective assessment designed to help him understand his current starting point across different parts of life.

His personalised result brings together:

His Orientation
A lens on how he may naturally approach fatherhood.

His Current Picture
What his wider life currently looks like across seven Fatherhood Domains.

What Stands Out
A personalised synthesis of his answers.

His Starting Direction
A small number of areas that may be worth exploring first.

There is no obligation to purchase a Fatherhood Journey afterwards.

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FOR DIFFERENT MOMENTS IN FATHERHOOD

There doesn't need to be a special occasion.

A BRTLS Gift Card can make sense when he has just become a father.

When another child arrives.

When work and family life are becoming difficult to combine.

When life has been unusually demanding.

When he seems to have little space left for himself.

For his birthday.

For Father's Day.

For Sinterklaas or Christmas.

Or simply because you want to give him something that recognises him, rather than only his role.

The gift does not assume he has a problem to solve.

It simply gives him somewhere to begin if he wants to.

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SIMPLE BY DESIGN

Give the gift. He chooses what happens next.

01 — Choose an amount
Select the BRTLS Gift Card value you would like to give.

02 — Receive the digital Gift Card
The Gift Card is delivered digitally with a unique code.

03 — Give it when and how you want
Forward it, print it or include the code in your own card or message.

04 — He chooses how to use it
He can redeem the Gift Card toward eligible BRTLS purchases through the BRTLS store.

05 — The rest belongs to him
If he chooses a Fatherhood Journey, his Discovery answers, personalised guidance and development remain part of his own BRTLS experience. The Journey ends automatically after the duration he selects.

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A GIFT WITHOUT AN EXPECTATION

Nothing to prove. Nothing to perform.

BRTLS is not built around becoming the perfect father.

It does not tell fathers what their priorities should be.

It does not assume more discipline, more productivity or more self-improvement is always the answer.

Sometimes something needs to change.

Sometimes something needs more attention.

Sometimes something is already working.

And sometimes understanding that is enough.

A BRTLS Gift Card gives him access to the process without deciding the outcome for him.

BUILT FOR REAL FATHERHOOD

Personal development that starts with real life.

BRTLS was founded by occupational therapist and father Eef Bartels.

The approach starts from a simple principle:

Understand the life before deciding what might help.

Rather than looking at fatherhood separately from everything around it, BRTLS considers the interaction between fatherhood, identity, relationships, work, health, responsibilities, home and personal direction.

The aim is not endless self-improvement.

It is to understand what is happening, try what seems useful, learn from real life and adjust when needed.

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Give him something that's his.

Not another thing he is supposed to use.

Not another standard for him to meet.

A place to understand where he is, decide what matters and choose what he wants to do with it.

Give a BRTLS Gift Card

€50 · €100 · €199 · €349 · €599

Digital gift card · Redeemable through the BRTLS store

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